Family Mediation is a  growing profession within South Africa comprising primarily of family attorneys, psychologists, and social workers. Family Mediation offers to the “family-in-conflict” the option to utilize as an alternative to the legal system, an efficient, cost-effective dispute resolution process to assist them in resolving their dispute.


What is Family Mediation ?

Family Mediation is a dispute resolution process aimed at assisting people who are in a relationship with one another, in resolving their dispute without their first having to go the legal route in an attempt to have their dispute resolved. The process is informal and it takes place outside of the legal arena hence the process being known as an alternative dispute resolution process or ADR. Parties who choose to go the mediation route are not precluded from accessing the justice system should they at any stage, be of the opinion, that this is what is needed for their matter.

Mediator Facilitates the Process 

The mediation process is conducted by a third-party facilitator known as a Mediator. Family Mediators are generally drawn from a pool of trained Family Attorneys, psychologists, social workers, and counsellors. The Family Mediator is required to remain neutral and non-aligned to either party and to have no vested interest as to how the disputes are ultimately resolved. 

The Cornerstone of Mediation

The principles of party self-determination, impartiality, and confidentiality of information are the cornerstones upon which Mediation rests and these principles are strenuously upheld by the Mediator throughout the process. The Mediator’s role is that of facilitating the parties’ discussions concerning the issues in dispute thereby helping them to avoid deadlock and breakdown in communication. The Mediator does this primarily by asking questions and by gently guiding the process towards possible resolution of the issues in dispute.

Joint Sessions Preferred 

Family Mediation sessions are normally conducted as joint sessions with all the parties present in the same room. There are however circumstances where separate sessions may need to be conducted with the parties, but this is generally at the discretion of the Mediator and only where all the parties are in agreement with a separate session or two being held with the Mediator.

Attorneys at the Mediation 

Attorneys are generally not present during the mediation, this is often more of a cost consideration than anything else, but should an attorney be required to sit in on the mediation, this can be arranged on the proviso that all the parties are in agreement with this.

Think Problem-Solving

Parties are throughout the process encouraged to engage in constructive dialogue with one another concerning the issues and disputes at hand and they are also encouraged to apply their minds to problem-solving attempts on how to best resolve their dispute so that a win-win outcome can be achieved.

It’s All in the Parties’ Hands

The final outcome of the Mediation is determined solely by the parties. The Mediator does not impose a solution on the parties or place any pressure on them regarding how they should resolve their dispute. This process is a completely voluntary one and at no stage is a party to a mediation required to agree to any settlement proposal that the other party may offer them. 

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